Rod and Joseph have been matched since 2016. Joseph was 11 years old when they met.  They would go to the park, out to eat, play ball and ride bikes.  All the things little boys enjoy doing. It took some time to build that trusting and comfortable relationship. Through consistency, dependability and open communication the relationship began to feel comfortable and something Joseph looked forward to each week. Through the years they also enjoyed the BBBS events. Joseph and his family have been through many personal struggles and Joseph desperately needed a positive male role model he could trust and count on. Joseph once told his big brother that he feels very safe when they are together and spending time watching movies or football games at Rod’s home. 

Nobody would have guessed a pandemic rocking the entire world. There were so many months that Rod and Joseph couldn’t see each other but they did video chats and spoke regularly on the phone. They did whatever they could to be creative while not being allowed to see each other. Their connection never faltered.  When they began seeing each other again it was like no time passed at all.  Rod is the big brother that Joseph needs. Rod is supportive, non judgemental, caring, understanding and the listening ear Joseph needs. Rod makes Joseph feel like he is safe when they are together and he can just relax and have fun.